13th Sunday after Pentecost
(Year A) – Sunday, September 11th, 2011
Christ Evangelical Lutheran Church,
Lancaster, PA
Text: Matthew 18:21-35
Were
you listening to Jesus' words today? Let's back up and we'll set the
scene. In last week's reading, Peter heard from Jesus all about how
to reconcile with a brother or sister, and now he asks, “well, if
my brother, or sister, sins against me (a reasonable scenario) well
how many times should I forgive him, as many as seven times?” Did
you hear his answer? Because he was pretty clear about it.
Not
seven times, but seventy-seven times. Seventy-seven! Seven was
often considered the number of perfection in the first century.
Jesus here isn't saying that 76 times isn't enough. He's telling us
that we must always forgive if we want to live the life of the
kingdom of heaven. Always.
Always
forgive. Every time. Sounds like a tall order. If my wife takes
the last cookie in the package, I think I can forgive that. If she
drinks the last of the coffee, different story. What about you? Can
you forgive that guy who cut you off on the way to church? Might be
hard, but most of us can do that. But Jesus says, always forgive.
Every time. What about the person who smashed your car windows and
stole the stereo? The friend who betrayed you? What about the
spouse who broke your sacred trust? What about the murderer of your
loved ones?
By
some movement of the Holy Spirit, these hard words from Jesus come to
us as we remember that ten years ago today, a group of terrorists
crashed three planes into buildings and one into a field not far from
here, resulting in 2,996 deaths, thousands more injuries and untold
sorrow, anger, fear and loss.
I
would imagine that someone who has lost a spouse, or parent, or
child, or friend in those attacks might have something to say to
Jesus. Something about who, and what was taken from them on that day
and the audacity of Jesus to ask that they give up something more.
Something about their dearly-earned right to hold the attackers' sins
against them.
Jesus
has some more hard words for us. He tells us of the mercy of a
master who forgave his desperate slave a debt of ten thousand
talents. This is an utterly ridiculous amount, equal to what one
scholar has figured as “150,000 years worth of income” for a
typical worker, or what you would make in 3,000 lifetimes. This same
slave in turn will not forgive a fellow slave 100 denarii, worth
about 3 month's wages. Not a small debt, but it does not compare to
what he had already been forgiven.
Jesus
has told some complicated parables, but this is not one of them. The
meaning is clear. We are the wicked slaves whose very lives have
been pardoned and granted back to us, and yet we will not let go of
the relatively tiny sins of our brothers and sisters. We grasp our
hands around our right to retaliate until our fingers turn white and
go numb, unable to feel the damage our “eye for an eye”
philosophy does to ourselves, to innocents and to the world. We
pretend that the sins of others are somehow so much greater than our
own that we are owed something.
But
we're all in this muddy world chained to sin together. We don't
stand on the moral or religious high ground. We're not far above
those who wrong us. In fact, we have no ground to stand upon at all
except the rock of our Savior Jesus Christ. On the cross Christ
broke the chains of our sin by forgiving us. It's been said that
forgiveness is giving up any hope of a better past. Every day,
Christ accepts us and our pain and anger and our thirst for revenge
and lets go of the hope that we had acted the way he would have
wished. Every day, Christ relieves us of ten thousand talents and
more, so that the future doesn't have to be the same as the past.
Christ's grace and love make it possible for us to forgive. In
Christ, God has done something no one else can do – he has made
possible a wide future that is not pre-determined by our sin, but
open to be shaped by the grace, love and hope of God.
None
of us, least of all me, can look into the eyes of those who lost on
9/11 and tell them they must forgive. We don't have the right.
Forgiveness cannot be forced. Archbishop Desmond Tutu knew this,
that forgiveness can be granted only from the heart of the one
wronged. Archbishop Tutu was a leader of the freedom movement in
South Africa alongside Nelson Mandela. If anyone had been wronged,
it was the people of South Africa who for decades had been subjected
to the inhuman system of racial hierarchy known as apartheid.
Lawless killings in the night, beatings by the police, years of
being denied simple recognition as a human being – these were sins
that could have resulted in a blood bath of revenge once the white
regime fell from power. But South Africa was for the most part
spared these years of retaliation, because Desmond Tutu and others
knew that there was no future without forgiveness. He led the
creation of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, a forum that
placed former oppressors (police officers, government officials and
the like) face to face with those they had oppressed. Amnesty,
forgiveness in a sense, was granted in exchange for the truth. Those
who had been beaten and raped, the loved ones of those who had been
murdered, they were able to confront their brothers and sisters who
had sinned against them. They could tell them their stories. They
chose whether or not to forgive. The tragic past was not forgotten
but solemnly remembered. Nevertheless, these past wrongs were not
allowed to define the future. Truth and reconciliation paved the way
for a new beginning that was not doomed to end with revenge, and more
revenge. The cycle of violence and hatred was broken.
God
has forgiven you, and me, an unimaginable debt. This is a precious
gift of love from God. None of us have lived so well that we are
entitled to pay back, or to hold ourselves higher than those who sin
against us. Because of Christ, human relationships are no longer a
game where the “winner takes all.” Tutu put it like this,
“forgiving means abandoning your right to pay back the perpetrator
in his own coin, but it is a loss that liberates the victim.” All
we lose in forgiving our brother or sister is the burden we have
placed over our own shoulders. No matter what evil is done to us,
we do not lose in the end. On a cross outside Jerusalem, in Jesus
Christ God won the final victory for all of us. In forgiveness we
have nothing to lose because Christ has won, once and for all.
In a
few moments during the offering, we're going to sing a song that
Archbishop Tutu wrote, called “Goodness is Stronger than Evil.”
When we remember the wrongs and the evil done to us, forgiveness may
seem impossible. But Jesus does not ask of us what he has not first
given to us. From this cross, forgiveness pours out. A forgiveness
that opens up our future. The goodness of Christ's cross is stronger
than evil. Love is stronger than hate. Light is stronger than
darkness. Life is stronger than death. Victory is ours, victory is
ours, through God who loves us. Amen.
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